tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23992722240982506542024-03-13T08:18:07.191-05:00Penny ThoughtsLet the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Psalm 143:8jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.comBlogger99125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-48688616478491556712013-11-15T15:22:00.001-06:002013-11-15T15:23:09.907-06:00I can't write about my Mom. <div style="text-align: center;">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I write a lot about my dad. A lot of my poems and stories for college classes were about him and a lot of my blogs are about him. He is cool and can build or fix anything and he rides those Lance Armstrong ( is that still a good way to explain it?) kind of bikes and is really fast and he's a super good runner which is something I wish I was. Basically, I think my dad is awesome, and just something about the fact that he is my Dad makes him easy to write about. All those times I needed a subject for my stories and it ended up being my dad... Just another way he quietly saved the day.<br /><br />But I have a mom too. And she, too, is awesome. So now that I am in grad school and trying to be the kind of teacher my mom has been for a long time, I find myself wondering why I don't write more about her. I think of all the times I've tried to, I've started to, but have never succeeded. Why? Why can't I write about my mom?<br /><br />Dads, my Dad, is a hero. He steps in and saves the day. If something is broken, be it my heart in high school or college, my bike, my sink, whatever, Dad can handle it. Once, my German Shepherd got her foot stuck in a metal bar. She cried and cried, but when my Dad got to her, she stopped crying. She knew he was going to rescue her. It's just the Dadness in him. It's easy to write about because it's dramatic and life changing.<br /><br />My mom is not a hero. What I mean by that, is my mom doesn't save the day. Instead, she carries on the day. If my car broke down somewhere, I wouldn't call my mom first, but when I can't decide between blue or black, when I need a second opinion, when my feelings are hurt or I'm defeated or discouraged, when I'm excited and happy and things are great, when I'm not sure what something means or how it works, or when I need to know how to be a better wife, friend, sister, or woman of The Lord, my mom has those answers.<br /><br />My mom counsels me. She explains things to me. She teaches me. She prays for me, cares for me, and brings me soup and apple juice when I am sick. And the reason I can't write about her is because she is me. When I don't know what to do or say or think, it's my mom that shows me. Without her, I wouldn't be exactly who I am. And if you're thinking, "Well what happens when your mom isn't around anymore? Could you live without her?" The answer is no. I couldn't live without my mother because she is in the way I think and act and the decisions I make. She is in the way I cook and decorate and write. My mother is in the way I dress and speak and look and in my fine hair, and even in the way I don't care for laundry and crave a good love story or book.<br /><br />So I can't write about her. I can't create a story about my mother because everything I write, everything I create, is about my mother, even when the subject is my Dad or anything else it might be. I am my mother. And what a wonderful, miraculous thing to be. </span>jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-51271928816350620372013-06-05T18:54:00.000-05:002013-06-05T18:54:54.741-05:00It's okay.It's okay if....<br />
Your hardest decision is whether to bake the cookies or just eat the dough.<br />
You go home from work and immediately put on the same athletic shorts and t-shirt that you put on immediately after work yesterday. and the day before.<br />
You paint a third coat of nail polish...to cover up the second coat that has started chipping away.<br />
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It's okay if...<br />
You need to yell at the vacuum for not picking up dirt off the hardwood floors.<br />
You go to the gas station for a Diet Coke and leave with a Diet Coke... and two donuts.<br />
You play the same CD over and over and over because it soothes your soul and makes you smile.<br />
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It's okay if...<br />
You leave the clean clothes in the dryer because taking them out means they have to be folded.<br />
You eat chips and left over cheesecake for a snack. or dinner. or breakfast. (or all of the above.)<br />
Every shirt you buy happens to be the really flowing, loose, cover-your-thighs kind.<br />
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It's okay if...<br />
You need a break during cleaning to check Instagram, or take another bite of cheesecake.<br />
You eat Wingstop at least once a week because it's so delicious and drinks are included in the "Wings for Two," so it makes you feel like you're getting a great deal.<br />
You leave the dishes in the sink, the dirty towels on the floor and spend the night on the couch.<br />
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And it's okay if...<br />
You sacrifice eyeliner or blow-dried hair for that extra hour of sleep in the morning.<br />
You don't count calories at that lunch place that has really incredible chips and queso.<br />
You care way too much whether or not your bangs fall just perfectly to the side.<br />
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YOU are incredible. And sometimes, you have to remind yourself that life really is OKAY. : )jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-84285182633843124732013-05-16T12:54:00.000-05:002013-05-16T12:54:09.939-05:00Two months of marriageI have been married for 2 months and 2 weeks. It is crazy how fast time flies.<br />
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Here is what I've learned during these glorious two months:<br />
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There is a lot of laundry. If you think you wear a lot of laundry, wait until you're doing laundry for two. And I thought <i>I </i>had a lot of clothes...<br />
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There is a lot of dust. Everywhere. Night stands, side tables, china cabinets, dressers. It's all over the place. Maybe I never paid attention before, but it sure seems like marries brings dust.<br />
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Cooking dinner takes time. A LOT of time. To prepare a real, delicious, homemade meal takes hours. Not kidding.<br />
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Chores are still chores. Cleaning the bathroom does not get better just because it's your lovey's bathroom. And clearing the table and doing the dishes are not more fun because your sweetie tells you how great everything looks. It still stinks and is gross.<br />
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Painting your nails becomes less of a priority, but not less of a desire. I still always yearn for a beautiful, glossy manicure, but sometimes (most of the time) there are better (or just <i>other) </i>things to do than paint those phalanges.<br />
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Sharing your bed is still not easy. I mean, don't get me wrong I love having the man beside me at night, but that doesn't mean I don't wish I could stretch out diagonally with the entire comforter wrapped around me without harming someone else.<br />
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Coordinating schedules is difficult. I used to think how wonderful all the things we had planned would be once we were a <i>we </i>and would do them all together, but I forgot that he has an entire family with birthdays and holidays, too, and that his work schedule is not exactly like mine and that he has things he wants to do, too... and that getting <i>my </i>hair done is not<b> </b><i>his </i>greatest wish for the weekend. Things like that are important... very important... to remember.<br />
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Bills must be paid. Not that I forget to pay my bills, but living at home with Momma and Daddy and paying my cellphone bill, gas, and car note then spending every single penny left over is not the recipe for a successful marriage. And sometimes, it is painful to mail in that mortgage check... especially when Jessica Simpson has just come out with a new pair of wedges.<br />
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Anyway, I could go on. I'm sure he has a list of things he's learned too. But, at the end of the day, here's what I've really learned in my two months of marriage:<br />
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How completely and fully God allows us to love another person is overwhelming... every single day I look at him. And not in a cheesy way. In a way that stops any thought I have at the time and makes me question how something so incredible could also be so real.<br />
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How difficult and amazing sharing life with another person can be. There are so many things that I cannot understand about the way Andrew's mind works or about why he makes the decisions he make, and sometimes those things I can't understand make living with him hard or frustrating, but it's also amazing... the way two people can combine their entire lives and make it work so well. It's like we've been welded together and somehow all of our different abilities and thoughts and processes sync together and make a beautiful creation. Every time we conquer a conversation peacefully that normally would bring about an argument, or every time one of us gives in to the other (even though it might be the <i>hardest </i>thing to do) and we are able to move on, it astounds me. How much we can grow and change.<br />
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How fun normal life can be. We don't have to be on vacation or out at a fun place or with a lot of people or even at dinner. We can be at home, on the couch, and it's the best place in the world to be. There is no one else I'd rather hang out with or talk to or get advice from. Marriage is the ultimate friendship.<br />
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How much our families impact who we are. I have always been a firm believer that people are a product of their environment, but I never realized how much like our families we are, until I got married. Everything Andrew does or thinks is somehow, even if just an inkling, reflected through his parents and the relationship they have together and with him. Sometimes he'll tell me I sound like my mom, act like my mom, think like my Dad, and more and more, things I see in Andrew every day, I'll see in his mom or Dad when we're with them, and everything seems to make a little more sense. I never really listened when friends would say, "Your marrying his Dad. He'll act the same," or "Look at the parents. That's what you'll get," and although this is not the complete truth in every situation, it is definitely so true in so many ways. (Fortunately, I got lucky in this department)<br />
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There are so many other things that I've learned about marriage. About being selfless and encouraging and supportive; so many things I'm learning about <i>biblical </i>submission and being a Godly wife. There are so many things God is teaching me about my ministry that is my husband and my marriage, and just about life in general, but the most important thing I've learned about marriage is how sacred and fragile and valuable a Godly, loving, faithful marriage is, and the daily challenge that comes with trying to love better and grow stronger in every situation life gives us.<br />
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This I have already learned though, how merciful and gracious God is, to bless my life so immensely in a way that is so undeserved.<br />
<br />jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-73234993126441223262013-04-10T14:46:00.002-05:002013-04-10T14:46:25.347-05:00DO NOT be jealous.<br />
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Today, I was scanning Facebook like an addict, and I saw a lovely gal's post. This sweet girl bragged all about her manly, loving husband, and then at the bottom she wrote, "Girls, be jealous."<br />
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So, I know this girl doesn't literally want all other girls without a manly, loving husband to "be jealous" of her, and I know every time a girl uses this phrase (which unfortunately is quite often) they don't mean it in a literal way, but the thing is... a lot of us really do get jealous of this stuff and wonder why we don't have what these other girls have.<br />
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And we should not. We should not ever get jealous of anything anyone else has. Never. Ever.<br />
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One of my most favorite things C.S. Lewis wrote is this:<br />
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"I would rather be what God chose to make me than the most glorious creature that I could think of; for to have been thought about, born in God's thought, and then made by God is the dearest, grandest, and most precious thing in all thinking."<br />
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Sometimes, I get really jealous of the girl who lost 30 pounds or got ANOTHER new car, or the girl who buys all her clothes at boutiques and can eat a cheeseburger without thinking about it, or whose hair curls perfectly every day. Sometimes, I get jealous of clear skin and big white teeth or perfect highlights. It's simply human nature to want what other have, to envy their success, but the last thing we should feel about other people is jealous.<br />
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I often have to remind myself that everyone struggles. Everyone has issues, and most things are NOT as they seem. I have to remind myself of all the incredible things in my life, how God has brought me so far and filled my days with purpose and meaning. I have to remind myself that the sweet girl with a wonderful husband is so blessed to have him, but not more blessed than the single girl with an incredible ministry or job or family; not more blessed than you with your imperfections and your struggles and your crazy, messy, beautiful life.<br />
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Sometimes it's really hard to grasp and even harder to believe, but no matter how down you feel about yourself, no matter how bad things seem to be, there are people worse off than you. There are people struggling just like you. There are people who feel the same way you do. So, you're never alone. You have people where you are, and the best thing, you have a God who has gone before you, who has struggled in this world, and who, for YOU, has overcome this world.<br />
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So girls, don't be jealous. Don't be jealous of the girl with the husband or boyfriend or great hair or new car. Don't be jealous of her clothes or her hair or her size 6 self. Be happy for her, and know, that she struggles too. Rejoice in the miraculous creation that you are. Celebrate that, and don't be jealous.<br />
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Don't ever be jealous.<br />
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jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-35062819317218105462013-02-19T07:40:00.004-06:002013-02-19T07:40:56.292-06:00Fact. You do lose friends.Today I read a tweet that said, "You don't lose friends. You just find out who your real ones are."<br />
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This is so wrong. So wrong, in fact, that is makes me frustrated and now I am writing about it.<br />
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There are only two girls from school that I still talk to regularly. And really, I don't even talk to them regularly. I can tell you though, they weren't my only two friends all throughout school. So, if this tweet is true, that means the five girls who carried me through school from third grade to junior year and all the new, wonderful friends I've met since then aren't real friends. What?<br />
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Here is the thing about friends: They come and go.<br />
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I firmly believe god allows people to be a part of our lives for different reasons and for different lengths of time. I believe some friends come, help us grow and change, and then are gone. Nothing more to it.<br />
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I believe some friends become just that because when we are little we like the same crayons or have the same kind of guinea pig, but as time goes and we grow up, things like guinea pigs don't matter anymore and suddenly it's about drinking and curfews and your lives go in totally different directions. And it's hard. It's really hard and there are tears and fights, and you end up not friends anymore at the end of it all. When you're 17 this doesn't really make sense and it sucks, but when you're older, you can see how those friends helped you become who you are, and you remember all the things they helped you get through, and you realize they are some of your truest friends, even if you don't really know them anymore.<br />
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I believe there are friends that God saves for us until later in life. New friends that we meet at college or at work; friends who, at 17, we never would have hung out with, but now they share a world of commonalities. They encourage us and walk with us through similar places in life. Friends who are new, fresh, and real, even though they've only been around for a few months.<br />
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I believe there are old friends, too. The kind you don't hang out with anymore; the kind you don't really see except at their wedding or on a random grocery run to the Kroger in their neighborhood. But these friends, these are the ones you still call your sisters. These are the friends you still know better than anyone else. These are the ones you can still call in that moment of tears and upset that still know what to say and exactly what you mean when you are talking about your mom or sister or someone from the past. Kind of like life savers. You don't always need them, but they are always there.<br />
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So, yes. Girls, you will lose friends. Sometimes it sucks. Sometimes it doesn't even really matter. But it happens, and it will happen all throughout life. But that doesn't mean they weren't your real friends. It doesn't mean they didn't impact you, change you, help you become who you are. It doesn't mean you can't laugh about memories and remember all those late nights you had together. It just means God's purpose for them in your life was through. And like everything else in life, your friendship changed.<br />
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I hope you love your friends. I hope you spend time with them and reach out to them. I hope you use your friendship to encourage them and minister to them. And I hope, when it's all said and done and they are no longer your friend, that you can smile and be thankful for the time you got together, and appreciate their new life and your new friends.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-91110508051108736712013-02-12T11:00:00.002-06:002013-02-12T11:00:54.351-06:00Isaiah 30:18<div style="text-align: center;">
The Lord <i>longs </i>to be <u>gracious</u> to you; </div>
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therefore he will <b>rise up</b> to show you <i>compassion.</i></div>
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For the Lord is a God of <u>justice.</u> </div>
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Isaiah 30:18</div>
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I love this verse. I love that the words "gracious" and "compassion" are used. I love that it describes God's desire for us as a longing. I love that it says he will "rise up." I love that there is an exclamation point at the end of the last sentence. I love how powerful those words and that exclamation point are. Here is what I mean:</div>
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In 18 days (ah!) Andrew will become my husband. It is hard to explain, but there is a longing in my heart to be his wife. I have this incredible desire to walk down the aisle towards him, to celebrate this incredible gift, and to begin my life with him. Some days, this longing in me is so strong that I get overwhelmed with joy, nervousness, excitement, and it consumes me. It consumes my thoughts, my To Do lists, my pins on Pinterest, my conversations, everything. In these moments, I have to set everything else aside and remind myself that in only 18 short days I will be his wife. I have to rest in that. 18 days. Two weeks. Three weekends. This is a longing that I've never felt for any other person. It is a longing I know can only come from a relationship that God has placed in my life.<br />
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Because of the longing in my hear to become Andrew's wife, when I read Isaiah 30:18, and I read that God <i>longs </i>to be gracious to ME, I have a minuscule picture of the longing in this verse. I picture the way I long to marry Andrew. I picture the way that we only know love because God first loved us. I picture the King of the universe, the Maker of all creation longing for me; longing to show me grace and compassion. He doesn't just want to. He is <i>longing </i>to. What an incredible feeling of assurance and love it is to know that God is longing for me.<br />
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Since I am getting married in 18 days, my thoughts have been rather nostalgic lately. I think of all the things my Mom and Dad have done for me to get me where I am. I think of all the times they had my best interest at heart, even when I did not. I think of all the times I was so ungrateful, so unwilling to help them out or do anything for them, yet they helped me and did anything for me that they could; knowing I would not return their kindness. My parents have always gone above and beyond what would be returned by me. In a way, they have risen up countless times over the past 23 years to see me through.<br />
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To think about my parents rising up to get me through, knowing what's best for me, is one thing, but t think about God rising up for me, rising up to show me compassion is incredible to say the least. The verse doesn't say that God will meet us in the middle and show compassion. It doesn't say if we come to Him asking he will rise up. It says He will <u>rise up</u> <u>to show us compassion.</u> God does not only <i>long</i> to show us grace, He rises up to show us compassion. In the midst of our own selfishness, when we are not aware of a need for compassion, He <u>rises up</u> to us, unconditionally. Wow.<br />
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The final sentence in this verse is ended with an exclamation point. As a writer, I know these marks, overused in text messages, are almost outlawed by writers. Exclamations express such strong emotion and excitement, that there is normally not a need for them in writing. Whenever they are used, the reader knows that sentence is something that should not be taken lightly. There are no words strong enough to express the emotion of that point, so an exclamation is used. How cool is that? There were no words powerful enough to translate the magnitude of this final sentence, so an exclamation is used. Incredible.<br />
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I hope this verse moves you. I hope you long for something in your life, so that you can at least sort of, kind of begin to barely understand God's longing for us. I hope you've had to rise up to carry something through that others did not do their part in, so you can sort of see how God rises up for us. I hope that you've felt excitement that is indescribable, so you can understand the strength of that last sentence. I hope this verse overwhelms you. I hope it stirs in you a longing for Christ.<br />
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jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-66264475465265048642013-02-08T11:47:00.000-06:002013-02-08T14:22:58.704-06:00Not calling myself a Busy Bee, but maybe....I want to write about something so wonderful that it inspires you and turns your day right around, but the truth is, I didn't even know Valentine's Day is next Thursday, and I'm on my second Kitchen Sink cookie and it's only 11 a.m. (I've already had two cups of coffee and I'm working on a Diet Coke now, but we won't even go there.) I haven't done my nails since who knows when, and if you know me, this is a huge deal. I wore one of Andrew's old t-shirts to work today and didn't bother to really fix my hair either, but you should see the center pieces for this wedding. (I'll make a list for those who are interested in purchasing them for their own wedding afterwards.) And the bridesmaids gifts... mmm. Wish I was a bridesmaid in my own wedding. And what about those handmade "thank you" cards. I'm going to buy myself a present just so I can give myself a Thank You card.<br />
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But just so you're not alarmed, I have managed to work out every day this week, and there is only one room left to redo in Andrew's... I mean.. our... house. I'm not going to mention now that I start Grad School TWO days after we get back from our honeymoon because I can already picture the raised eyebrows on your face. So... maybe I've been a little occupied lately.<br />
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I guess it's fair to say I have never been so busy in my life, but at the same time, I've also never been so motivated or inspired.. I am flying high on excitement (and maybe caffeine and some nerves), and I honestly think if I had a baby right now and car was falling on top of it, I'd probably stop it with my bare hands (but seriously, praising the Lord that is not the case, both for the baby's sake and mine. and the car's.). I digress.<br />
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For sake of you who might actually read this, I will try now and make a point you can get some use out of. My point is this:<br />
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Find something that makes you excited. Find something that gives you this crazy insane energy. Find something that makes you want to be about more than just yourself, and not just something that makes you talk about being more than just yourself... something that really steals your attention and your hard work and your mind and fires you up. (As Christians, this should be Jesus on a daily basis, but I believe God allows us to be fired up for other things so that all of our thankfulness and praise goes back to him.)<br />
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Allow another person to occupy your mind and give you butterflies and chills and nervous laughs. Let their energy boost yours and make you dream bigger and plan for crazy far-off things. Don't be afraid to stay busy, to stay learning and growing and working hard. Don't be afraid of losing yourself... it's in these moments of passion that you'll find yourself. Don't be afraid of showing who you really are and doing things you really want and allowing yourself to be open and vulnerable. Don't let pressure from the world stress you out and make you forget all the things you want to do. Don't be afraid to make your mind up about something and then just go and do it. Right then. Without thinking or preparing. If you want something, get it. (Like, for instance. I want a third Kitchen Sink cookie. Don't mind if I do.)<br />
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Anyway, maybe this is crazy and I can't justify being I'm nbusy and totally stoked about my wedding and my almost-husband in 22 days by telling you to allow yourself to fill up your schedule with things that excite you and make you feel good, but then again, maybe I can. Actually, I can. And I am.<br />
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Be extremely passionate about something and nod sweetly when people tell you that you're in over your head, but don't let them dishearten you or dwindle your excitement. Today is the day. Do it.<br />
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Now back to the To Do list...<br />
<br />jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-25362405739095543732013-01-22T09:46:00.002-06:002013-01-22T09:46:34.278-06:00God is love. And other overwhelming characteristics<div style="text-align: center;">
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Sometimes I get so overwhelmed when I think about God. My life has been a series of MY plans failing and HIM showing me a better way. Especially in this season of my life, I have been extremely aware of the love and other characteristics of God. I don't know why it shocks me though. God IS love, after all. It is impossible for me to think about God without thinking about love; without examining the way He's shown his love in my life. I tried to make a list of the qualities of God that overwhelm me as I try to grasp them. Here's what I came up with:<br />
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Provision.<br />
This is the first word that comes to mind when I think about God. There are so many instances in my life where I should have taken a different turn than I did; so many instances where I wanted to go one way, but God intervened and turned me in the right direction. His provision in my life has saved me, time and time again. There is no reason I should be where I am today; no reason except his provision. Even when I don't want to go, even if there were times when I wanted to take the wrong path, just out of my selfish, sinful human nature, God did not allow me to go down the wrong path for long. He looks out for me, even when I don't want to look out for myself. <br />
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Magnitude.<br />
The definition of magnitude is: The great size or extent of something. I wish I had a bigger word, but I don't. The magnitude, the great size and extent, of God's overwhelming power and abundance is mind-boggling. I cannot allow myself to think about his magnitude for too long because it is such an emotional process. My life is a 23 year testimony to the incredible magnitude of God's unending strength, love, and forgiveness. The way He has blanketed himself over my whole entire life, saving me and protecting me time and time again... it brings tears to my eyes. My human mind cannot comprehend love so grand, so strong, so... so... magnificent. My own selfishness is not even enough to keep me from Him. My own desire for the world is not enough to keep me from His righteousness. His magnitude is infinite.<br />
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Mercy.<br />
My heart breaks at all the wrong decisions I've made in my 23 years. It aches at all the times my life should have ended as I knew it; at all the times it should have taken a drastic turn because of a selfish decision I made. God is so merciful though, even at times when I didn't WANT to receive that mercy. He loves me too much for his plan to be thwarted by my own desires, so He extends mercy. Mercy is never deserved. What I deserve is a cross, but what God gives me is mercy. Countless times God has stopped and saved me from myself. Countless times His mercy has extended beyond my own understanding. I am nothing without His mercy.<br />
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Grace.<br />
One of my favorite things about God (is it possible to have a favorite thing about God?) is that he doesn't just LOVE us, but he LIKES us too. God wants us to be joyous and content. He wants our desires to be His. I think too often we hear about the fear and respect of God, and not that he likes us, too. God doesn't need me. There is no purpose for me in God's....life (for lack of a better word) than to bring Him glory, but he LIKES me, he loves me, and therefore extends GRACE to me. This concept is hard for me to grasp. It's like grace is something He's given me, so that He can continue to enjoy me in His presence. Without His grace, I would be empty, but God LIKES me. He doesn't want me to be empty. He's extended not only His undeserved mercy, but also His undeserved grace, so that I can walk in His way.<br />
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Faithfulness.<br />
God has been faithful to me when I was not faithful to Him. When I was so far from Him, when I was so far from who He wanted me to be, God was faithful. He has been faithful despite my own desires and plans. He has been faithful in his mercy; never wavering in forgiveness. He has been faithful in grace; never wavering in love. He has been faithful in provision; always providing for me, even when I did not know what He was doing, or that He was even doing something. His faithfulness is an immovable mixture of His whole being.<br />
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God is love. Without Him, we cannot understand love. We cannot give love. We cannot receive love. The saddest thing to me though, is that without God, people cannot grasp how MUCH they need Him; how dead they are without Him. We need to be living testimonies of what God can do, does do, is doing. We need to share His message and love as He has called us to love; as only we who know Him CAN love.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-49792081588832613882012-11-17T15:20:00.001-06:002012-11-17T15:20:57.083-06:00Week one and the paint is melting.Lousiana Tech is HOT. That's just it. No other way to say it, but let me tell you, that water at rec sure was delicious! We only had two squads for rec because the total camp was only 400, half of which were missions campers. It was a nice way to ease into the swing of things, and it allowed us to figure out what we needed to improve for the weeks to come. Let me say this though, Ed Newton and David Walker brought it EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. The size of the camp doesn't matter. When two or more gather in God's name He is present, and God certainly made His presence known. Ed covered the whole book of Galations in a way that I've never heard before. David Walker brought a whole new meaning to "Might to Save", and God changed lives. Rec was hot, "Just Dance" free time option was fun, and the red squad won the spirit stick! :)jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-10671740124946966332012-11-16T16:38:00.002-06:002012-11-16T16:38:35.635-06:00ThankfulSo, I haven't been doing the "Thankful" Facebook posts (mostly because I'm lazy). Instead of thinking of something and posting it each day on Facebook, I'm going to make one big thankful post full of mushy thankfulness (and it's all deeply thought about and wildly heartfelt).<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Sisters</span>. I called Maegan the other day, all giddy over something great Andrew had done. Maegan shared in my excitement, and she also gave me reasons why my girly enthusiasm was completely necessary. Today, I called Maegan with a realistic viewpoint of the same thing I was waaay too excited about, and she gave me all the reasons why it was better to have this real outlook. I love my sisters for that. Thank you, sisters, for feeding my completely unnecessary excitement or disappointment or...whatever.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Books.</span> Need I say more? I am so thankful that I can open a book and be an Upper-East sider, a princess, a vampire, Mrs. Darcy- whatever I want to be. Books are like vacations, only without packing and airports and luggage and sunburn. And you get to stay in your pajamas.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">School. </span>99% of the time, I am <i style="font-weight: bold;">not </i>thankful for school. 99 % of the time, I am cursing school in my mind (not with swear words, of course). Even today, I called Andrew (and my sister) on the brim of hateful tears of my beloved university. But really, I am thankful for school. I am thankful that I can get a higher education right here in my home town. I am thankful that in December I will be that much closer to my dream job. I am thankful that retirement and job security are covered for me from now on. It's a love/ hate relationship, but I really am thankful for school.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Andrew.</span> Handsome. Hardworking. Loves Jesus (And his Mom. And his Dad. And MY mom. And MY dad). Makes me laugh. Laughs with me (or at me?). Bear hugs. Chivalry. Feeds my need for adventure and my DIY spirit (And my large appetite). Lets me pick the movie. Encouraging. Strong. Handsome. Stable. Rational. Kind. Generous. I could keep going...<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Winter clothes.</span> I am so stinkin' thankful that in winter it is completely acceptable to cover your arms with a sweater, your legs with pants, and your neck with a scarf. I am so thankful that during these sacred months my tan is not a concern, nor is the flab under my arms or on my thighs. Thank you, winter. Thank you.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Memphis weather.</span> I LOVE Colorado. That is, until I visited during winter. Let's just say my Colorado fever has been cured by the 12 degree winds, and I am ever thankful for 60 degree Novembers and the OCCASIONAL need for a winter coat.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Family. </span>We. Are. Weird. And I am so thankful for that. We are like the Breakfast club (only with parents and little kids and all related). My family always makes me laugh (sometimes at my own expense). We are always there (sometimes toooooo there) for each other. We all share a love for food, old movies, and Jesus. We are a closed group-- it's really hard to get in, but once you're in, there's no turning back, and that has saved me from many a bad boyfriend and mean girls. I am so thankful for my little (not so little) family and what a blessing a strong, close family is.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Chocolate. </span>I'm a girl. Do I even need to write why I'm thankful for chocolate? It's the quintessential best friend. Faithful, loyal, forgiving, agreeing, solving, delightful best friend.<br />
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So basically, I could go on. For now though, I'm going to go enjoy all the things I just mentioned being thankful for. You should make a list, too. Nothing bad can come from a little gratitude.<br />
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<br />jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-60612192565738486032012-07-30T14:37:00.004-05:002012-07-30T22:20:43.078-05:00Thankful Monday<div style="text-align: center;">
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom their is no variation or shadow due to change. James 1:17 </div>
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It is so easy to get caught up in wanting, wishing, hoping for things, that we forget to be thankful for what we already have. In the midst of wanting some things I can't have right now, God shows me (yet again!) how much I already possess.</div>
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a really great and icy Diet Coke on a tired, hot afternoon</div>
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my mother's cooking, after a few weeks of fast food and camp meals</div>
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and a big, soft bed that I don't have to share, in my own room, under a solid roof</div>
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that little moment of quiet under a bridge when driving through a storm</div>
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a running car that is dependable, that has great air conditioning</div>
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and the plastic that covers the light bulbs, separating me and the two wasps on the other side</div>
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the ability to run, and a safe neighborhood to do so</div>
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the place I work, the co-workers I have that are mentors and encouragers in faith and in life</div>
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and the fact that I am not really in control of anything</div>
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a big dinner table that we all sit around</div>
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the moments when my 10 year old nephew needs my help, reminding me that he isn't growing up as fast as it seems</div>
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and really great friendships that time doesn't stand a chance against</div>
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Good, clean drinking water at my disposal</div>
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the book section in Goodwill</div>
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and the way the Bible is completely relevant in every situation</div>
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Old acquaintances that have become good friends</div>
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New people in my life </div>
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And lessons learned from ones that are no longer are a part</div>
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how different people are</div>
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Needtobreathe music</div>
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and really great love stories that end exactly how I want them to</div>
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Iced coffee when it's too hot for regular</div>
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the people I get to talk to on the phone at work each day</div>
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and the clouds, which have become a new fascination and reminder of God's unlimited resources</div>
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my college</div>
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my education</div>
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and that I only have 14 hours left.</div>
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Sonic Happy Hour</div>
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Half price appetizers</div>
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and Aldi grocery stores, which seem to understand my budget.</div>
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the Sun, which brings a new day each morning</div>
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sleep, which is the ultimate clean slate,</div>
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and those days I get to lie in bed and catch up on my favorite shows.</div>
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the good</div>
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the bad</div>
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and the beautiful, which seem to all be interlinked. </div>
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And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.</div>
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Philippians 4:19 </div>
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There are a lot of things I love about <a href="http://www.campelectric.com/" target="_blank">Camp Electric</a>. </div>
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Of all the concerts, the jam sessions, and awesome
instructors, my favorite thing about Camp Electric is that so many students
come just for the music.</div>
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There’s not a camp out there like CE, so while a majority of
our students are from Christian homes and already know of Jesus, a lot of our
students don’t care about Jesus- they are just here for the music experience.
Isn’t God great?!</div>
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What these non-believing students don’t understand is that
God has given them the talent they possess. He’s given them a passion for
music, and HE has brought them to Camp Electric. They are here for the music,
but God has a much, much greater agenda. Here’s what I mean:</div>
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Yesterday, one of my awesome chaperones asked me to pray for
a girl in her group. The chaperone (whom I’ll call chaperone) said, </div>
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have a girl in my group. She doesn’t know Jesus. Her father is an atheist and
her mother is an alcoholic, and she is lost, but this morning, in devotion, she
asked our group to pray for her. She said she doesn’t know Jesus, but she wants
to know him. I wanted to jump up and down, but I prayed with her instead.”</div>
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I told her that’s the point of Camp. I told her I’d pray for
the girl, for her, for all the students here, and then we did just that. We
prayed.</div>
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Not long after my chaperone meeting, a girl comes into the
office. She was devastated because the strap had broken off her electric
guitar. The guitar fell on the ground and broke. It was her Dad’s guitar. He
was going to be so mad at her. We tried to calm her down, telling her it was
something that could be fixed and at not too high a cost. She left our office, not in tears, but certainly worried.</div>
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For our nightly concert last night, <a href="http://www.tobymac.com/" target="_blank">TobyMac and the Diverse City</a> band performed. (They are AWESOME, by the way). So in the middle of the
concert, everything stops, and the lead guitarist gets on the mic. He says,</div>
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“Today, I was walking to lunch and I
hear someone scream my name. It was this girl who had broken her guitar in
class that day. She was freaking out, didn’t know what to do. So here’s what
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He called the girl on stage, the same girl who had been in my
office that afternoon, and handed her the guitar he was playing. Just like
that. It was a beautiful light blue electric guitar. He gave it to her. He gave
this girl his guitar. The look on her face was priceless.</div>
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At that point, Chaperone runs over to me. </div>
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Chaperone says, “No, Jessica, that’s the girl that wants to
know God. That’s the girl that wasn’t sure about him, that wants to know more
about him. This afternoon she came to me and told me she had broken her guitar.
She asked me what we could do about it. I told her we were going to pray that
God would show her His faithfulness and bring her a new guitar. HE DID!!!”</div>
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This
is the girl who we prayed for earlier that afternoon; the girl with the atheist
dad, the alcoholic mom; the girl who wanted to know more about Jesus. She was
afraid, unsure, and God proved his faithfulness to her. He showed her that He
cares for her, that He loves her. That she belongs to Him. He showed her that even in
her doubt, He is sure.<br />
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She gained a lot more than a new guitar at camp. God is good.</div>jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-72202535570483506182012-07-24T14:17:00.002-05:002012-07-25T08:14:48.720-05:00My thoughts on a broken world.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span><br />
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forget His </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mercy</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , and the love He has for His children .</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please never forget that God is called our Father </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">for a
reason </span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> He wants us to come to him as the children do </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">for a reason</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. God wants
our </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">honesty</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, He wants our </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hopes</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , our </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dreams</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , our </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">deepest desires</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> . He wants to
know what we </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">yearn</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> for , what we </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">long to possess</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , and He </span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wants</span></b></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">to be the center of all of those things . Please never forget
that God </span><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">loves</span></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> you, but even more than that, God </span><i><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">likes</span></u></b></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">you . He wants you to be </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">happy</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, to be </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">prosperous</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, to </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">grow
strong</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> in Him, </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bold in the faith</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, and He wants you to be </span><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">untouched by this
world </span></span></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please never forget that, just like our earthly fathers, </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">God
sometimes tells us no</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> . He sometimes </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">disciplines us</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">corrects us</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> , and </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sometimes
He even tests our knowledge and our strength</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> . Sometimes God allows us to go
through things because He wants us to </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">be prepared</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">to be ready</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">to be
courageous </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">He wants us to understand the weight of our calling as a Christian , he wants us to understand the freedom we have in Him .</span></b></div>
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perfection is free will- allowing us to </span><i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">choose</span></u></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">
</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">whether or not we </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">want</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> to love Him , serve Him , be His . </span><b><u><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">He leaves this
choice to us</span></i></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> because </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">our God is not forceful </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">He will fight for us</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, but after
time and time again of </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">our constant rebellion </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, God will give us over to our
desires . </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">This is where evil comes in </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. Please never forget that God is perfect,
and in his perfection, </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">he allows us to choose for ourselves</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> . For this reason ,
</span><b><u><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">man often makes the </span></i></u></b><i><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wrong </span></u></b></i><b><u><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">choice, and
bad things happen .</span></i></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> For this reason , evil sweeps the world - our own selfishness , our own hurt , or own </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">pride cause our own destruction </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">God does not cause bad things to happen , but he
allows us to make decisions , and unfortunately , human are sinful by nature .</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> Please never forget God is good and perfect and </span><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anything </span></span></u></b><i><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">not </span></span></u></b></i><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">good and perfect is from this world and sin, not from God. </span></span></u></b></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please never forget that </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">God does not </span></b><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">need </span></b></i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">us </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">His plan will prevail, His will is carried out </span></u><i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">with </span></u></i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">or </span></u><i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">without </span></u></i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">us</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> . </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">The devil though, he </span></b><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">needs </span></b></i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">us . </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> Satan’s plans </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">cannot</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> be carried out unless we decide to
allow him to use us . </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please remember taking up your cross is a DAILY sacrifice,
discipline, a choice NOT to follow the world , NOT to be used by Satan. </span></span></div>
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<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please never forget that God uses ALL things- big </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">or </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">small </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">His voice is often quiet</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, and </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">we do not find things we are not looking for</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. Please remember that </span><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">prayer</span></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> is the most</span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">
important </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">and the </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">strongest </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">weapon
we have . Please remember that God </span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hears </span></b></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">our
prayers , our cries . </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">He’s strong enough for us. He’s waiting for us. </span></span></b></div>
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He just wants to </span></i></u></b><i><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">be </span></u></b></i><b><u><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">your future .</span></i></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">
Please </span><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">never doub</span></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">t that </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">God </span></b><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">will </span></b></i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">take
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Please never forget that He </span></span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">promised</span></span></b></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">
</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">to NEVER leave OR forsake you, and God ALWAYS makes good on his promises. </span></span></div>jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-1886792647411751052012-05-19T09:29:00.004-05:002012-05-19T09:29:42.076-05:00Today is the day.Today is the day...<br />
I will drink my whole venti coffee... because I woke up at 8 on a Saturday.<br />
I will open my book and put thought and care into every single word, careful not to miss the small details.<br />
I will go to a wedding and appreciate the sweetness of their moment without wishing it was my moment.<br />
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Today is the day...<br />
I will run 3.5 miles instead of just 3.<br />
I will spend time with my friends, not distracted by my cell phone or gossip or worried about tomorrow.<br />
I will do what I want to do... because that's what Saturdays are for.<br />
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Today is the day...<br />
I will clean up my car... and my room.<br />
I will find more to do than shop or spend money.<br />
I will invest in someone other than myself.<br />
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Today is the day...<br />
I will practice what I preach.<br />
I will pray a little more<br />
I will worry a little less.<br />
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Today is the day I will enjoy until tomorrow.<br />
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What do you have planned for today?<br />
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What I love about the sun is how, even when the clouds are out, it's still shining behind them. I love how the sun is always there, even though sometimes we can't see past the darkness. I love that it rises each morning and sets each evening, and you can depend on it.<br />
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I love that the sun knows when we've had enough. It knows when to step back; when a day has been too long and too hard. I love that, even though it hurts sometimes, it is always helping me giving me nutrients I need, warmth, a clear vision, the ability to see as far as my eyes will let me.<br />
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I love that the world works to the rhythm of the sun. I love how the sun is so magnificent, we can only get so close to it. I love that even from so far away, the sun always feel close; always has a hand on my shoulder.<br />
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I love that every time the sun rises, it brings a new day with it. I love that it signifies a fresh, clean slate, and that when the sun is shining, even bad things aren't unbearable.<br />
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What I love about the sun is how our Creator crafted it just so- giving it a purpose and a duty. I love that He knew how much we would depend on it.<br />
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What I love about about the sun is that even it was created with a calling to reflect the magnificence of our God and it does so faithfully.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-56134633443551939892012-02-13T22:40:00.000-06:002012-02-13T22:40:00.144-06:00What's in a name?I have to admit, I am not good at titles. I put so much into the actual writing, so much into the words and the structure and the technical and contextual elements, that by the time I get to the title, I'm over it... or late for my next class... or bed time.<br />
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I don't like having to name things. Giving something a name makes it seem so... final. It's like, if you name something, that's what it is. Forever. Always. I will always be Jessica because that is what my parents named me. I like my name, but it's just so... permanent.<br />
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To give something a title, to use hundreds of words and letters and then end it with three little words that may or may not relate- how can you do that? How can I write an entire piece of work to settle on a three word title? Doesn't that seem a little strange?<br />
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People say, "Well what is your work about?" And I give them an answer, but the title can't be "It's about a house that I grew up in that had this really great swing set with monkey bars and a rope....," so how do you choose? How do you choose a couple measly words to sum up your whole story?<br />
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Is it like life? Do you just write and write and write, and pick a word, whether it relates or not? I mean, my parents named me Jessica, but they didn't know whether I'd be a Jessica or Sarah, or Katie.... they just picked what they liked and I am me, and luckily, I like it and it fits me.<br />
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Wait, maybe that's how it is. Maybe "Jessica"fits me because that's what I've always been. My dog is a "Tabor" because she's never been called anything else, and this blog is about "Words" because that's what I called it. Is this blog even about words? I am so bad at titles.<br />
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My question is, are we defined by our titles? Are confined by them? Are we limited to what people say we are, what they call us? I don't think so... I think we are so much more than a title, just like a story is so much more than it's title, just like there is more to us than our names. Don't let people title you. Don't be defined by what someone else chooses to call you. More than likely, they don't know what you're about anyway.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-65604526302796444932012-02-13T22:28:00.000-06:002012-02-13T22:28:33.648-06:00Fine Line God?I thought senior year of college would be a time of celebration and easy classes. Wrong! College, senior year, is a time to freakout over deadlines, missing credits, grad school applications, job interviews, GRE tests, blah, blah, blah, the list goes on. If I wrote out a to- do list (for all of you who know I am a compulsive list maker), it would literally take a whole sheet of paper. Even more than that, it seems like every single decision, every move, every answer, question, everything carries so much weight. I feel like, at this point in my life, every decision I make is going to affect my future. In a way, it is very exciting, but mostly, it's extremely overwhelming. So, here is what someone very wise told me:<br />
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God's will for our life is not a fine line that we have to stay on. It's not a tight rope, that, if we fall off, that's it- we're done. God's will doesn't work like that! Thank the Lord (literally) because I have awful balance.<br />
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In a figurative way, God's will for our life is like a football field, or a basketball court- something with boundaries. We can go anywhere we want within those boundaries and still be in God's will for our life. Isn't that beautiful?<br />
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If you are like me- if you feel like every decision you have in front of you is a high-stakes decision. Think again! God didn't set a will for our lives to confine us. He set a will for our lives to show us how free we are in Him. He sets the boundaries, but we are free to move. We're free to seek and find and look and search. We have to pray that those boundaries would be clear to us, and we have to discern between our own boundaries and the ones God has set for us, but He gave us a brain and hands and feet because He wants us to use them- to seek for ourselves His will for us.<br />
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So next time that decision lingers in front of you and you are panicked to make the right choice, ask God to help you. Ask Him to show you the boundaries of His will, and He will do just that. If this is our prayer, there should be no fear and anxiousness about the future- only excitement about reaching our full potential in Christ.<br />
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So rejoice, God has set forth a plan for us. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future..." Your decision will not cause you to fall of the tight rope of God's will. It will force you to move within the boundaries of the freedom He's given us. How amazing is that? Be confident in prayer, and be confident in your decisions.<br />
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It doesn't seem so high-stakes when I look at it this way. God is good... and funny. :)jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-67161303542974951582012-02-01T22:08:00.000-06:002012-10-22T18:08:47.181-05:00He's not real.Just this second, I was watching a music video for a country song, and found myself wondering, "Why don't I have that kind of relationship?"<br />
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Movies, books, songs, tv- they make us long for something that isn't real. Nicholas Sparks makes even the best guys look like jerks. When I read <i>Dear John</i>, I cried for John Tyree. I thought how stupid that girl was for not waiting on him. I said I would have waited for him. If that's the case, I'm going to be waiting a long time.<br />
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There are good guys out there, lots of them. I am related to the two greatest men in the world (at least, I think they are the two greatest men in the world!) But even they don't live up to the standards of a "dream boy."<br />
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Girls, we can't change a bad boy. We can't make him right and good and honorable. Guys don't walk around and write love songs for us, they don't hold boom boxes outside our windows. They don't remodel houses in our honor and then say "it was never over," when we return to them. They don't sit beside our bed all night just to make sure we sleep okay. They don't do that . That's . Not . Real .<br />
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It's like this- we are not "dream girl" material. Well, I'm not anyways. I complain... a lot. I'm irrational and difficult and nothing is ever my fault. If I'm not the girl in one of those songs/ books/ movies, how can I expect him to be the guy in one of those movies? If I'm not perfect size, perfect attitude, perfect girl, why would I expect a guy to be all of those things for me?<br />
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Next time you find yourself wondering where your Noah, John, Chuck, Edward, Jacob, the list goes on, is, think about what guy, <i>any guy</i>, you actually know in real life that acts the way those characters do. I'd bet you can't find an answer.<br />
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Don't ask what's missing in your relationship. Don't ask where your dream guy is. Really think about the things you do have in a relationship, or think about the things that are actually really important. Ask yourself what's going to matter in 10 years when you're waking up beside him every morning. It'll make you thankful for what you have instead of ungrateful for what you can't seem to find. It'll make you realize the difference in a movie character and a real-life guy. It'll make you realize where your expectations are and where they should be.<br />
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Give the guys a chance. Sparkly vampires aren't real. (Neither is Christian Grey. Or Peetah for that matter.)jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-65008526699152802732012-01-27T11:04:00.002-06:002012-01-27T11:09:43.271-06:00Little Storms<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px;"><b>When it rains, it pours... But there's always sun behind the clouds, no matter how long they stick around.</b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">It rains a lot. Sometimes, we embrace it. We curl up with a good book, or our favorite tv show, throw our arms around that special person, and let the sound of the rain carry us away. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Sometimes we run from it. We throw a hood over our heads and make a mad dash for refuge. It doesn't even matter what that refuge is- anything that will get us out of the storm.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Sometimes we ignore it. The rain falls, and our day carries on, just like it would if there wasn't a cloud in the sky. We don't really even notice that it started raining, and we don't notice when it stops.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Sometimes it ruins our day. We have to change all of our plans. It makes us mad and bitter, and we blame the rain for everything else that goes wrong.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Sometimes, it makes us sad. The gray sky rubs off on us. We are lonely or depressed. Melancholy thoughts run through our minds and nothing is quite good enough to pull us out of our gloominess.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Sometimes, it scares us. We aren't sure what's going to happen next. We don't know how long it will last, or if we'll make it out in one piece.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">But the thing about the rain, is that the sun always shines again. It's always there, waiting behind the clouds to make its grand entrance. Just when we think we've had enough, just when we're not sure how much more we can take, the sun rescues us with its bright warmth, and saves us from drowning, crying, bitterness, fear; reminding us that the storm is always only temporary. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">There is sun in everyone's life. Whatever you're going through, wherever you are, the rain won't last. It's only a temporary storm in front of your sun. It will shine again. Don't let the rain keep you from dancing in the streets. </span></div>jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-21877266716647961172012-01-24T00:45:00.002-06:002012-01-24T00:45:31.744-06:00You need to read this.<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:DocumentProperties> <o:Revision>0</o:Revision> <o:TotalTime>0</o:TotalTime> <o:Pages>1</o:Pages> <o:Words>403</o:Words> <o:Characters>2303</o:Characters> <o:Company>Jessica Nabakowski</o:Company> <o:Lines>19</o:Lines> <o:Paragraphs>5</o:Paragraphs> <o:CharactersWithSpaces>2701</o:CharactersWithSpaces> <o:Version>14.0</o:Version> </o:DocumentProperties> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings> </xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves/> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:DoNotPromoteQF/> <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:LidThemeAsian>JA</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark/> <w:EnableOpenTypeKerning/> <w:DontFlipMirrorIndents/> <w:OverrideTableStyleHps/> <w:UseFELayout/> </w:Compatibility> <m:mathPr> <m:mathFont m:val="Cambria Math"/> <m:brkBin m:val="before"/> <m:brkBinSub m:val="--"/> <m:smallFrac m:val="off"/> <m:dispDef/> <m:lMargin m:val="0"/> <m:rMargin m:val="0"/> <m:defJc m:val="centerGroup"/> <m:wrapIndent m:val="1440"/> <m:intLim m:val="subSup"/> <m:naryLim m:val="undOvr"/> </m:mathPr></w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" DefUnhideWhenUsed="true"
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<div class="MsoNormal">The problem with relationships that are fun while they last, is that they don’t ever last. You can’t just love the best version of someone. You have to love the worst, most annoying, most whiny version of them. That’s the only way you’ll ever deserve the best version. It’s the only way anyone will ever deserve the best version of you. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">No matter what twisted lies our world tells, girls still need romance, and guys still need the pursuit. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">People are not cell phones. You can’t upgrade when your version gets old or the communication gets slow. The only true love story is still the one written by God, and even if you don’t like the plot, it’s the only way to a happy ending. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Yeah, things get hard and it won’t stay exciting, and yeah, at some point, you’re going to want out, but it’s not a game. It’s real life and there are no timeouts or redos. There is only here and now and mercy and grace and forgiveness. There is only love, like Christ loved us. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">There is only hope for tomorrow, no guarantee of it. So don’t say that tomorrow you will make it right, but don’t expect to solve all your problems in one night. Sleep still is the best cure for most illnesses.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We have to give love and show vulnerability to be trustworthy and to receive vulnerability in return. People are so defensive, but relationships are made of teammates, not opponents. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">You are not perfect, and when you look in the mirror, you know this. Don’t expect anyone else to be, either. Do not expect of someone what you do not give them. Don’t call the girl you hurt or the guy you left and expect a friendly voice. Exes are not forgotten friends. They are lessons learned, and there is a reason you are not still with them. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Peace must be kept, but it’s okay to fight. It’s healthy to disagree and to speak your own mind, but words have more power than the strongest weapon, so use them with caution and beware of destruction. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Dance slowly and look into one another’s eyes. Hold hands and compromise. Meet in the middle, and don’t want what you do not have, don’t wish to be who you are not. It’s exhausting and there’s no appeal in being anything except yourself. No one wants perfect, but everyone is searching for real. Real is not on a magazine cover and Hollywood does not define standards for self-image or love. Don’t look to last month’s tabloid for your goals and hopes- look to the living Book- the only one that has been tried and tested and withstood any society. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Love fiercely, and do not be afraid to risk it all. With much risk, comes much reward, but remember there is a difference in foolishness and bravery, and even Spiderman needed a little help.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal">Sometimes, a pipe is just a pipe, said Freud. <o:p></o:p></div><!--EndFragment-->jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-59751798902047670592012-01-17T21:03:00.000-06:002012-01-17T21:03:20.727-06:00Firsts and LastsEveryone experiences firsts and lasts. Firsts and lasts come in all sizes, and normally, there is a story- a memory attached to each. Telling the story is not important because we hold the stories in our hearts or our minds, sometimes against our will. What is important is learning from these first times and last times, growing from them, appreciating the experiences- even if it takes a while. Here's a few of mine...<br />
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thanks to my Creative Non-Fiction teacher for the idea.<br />
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First....<br />
Time I really gave myself to God. (life-changing, literally.)<br />
Time I kissed a boy.<br />
Time I left home for a long period of time.<br />
Time I got a dog.<br />
Real, scarring heartbreak.<br />
Adult purchase I ever made (a car... I jumped right in.)<br />
(and only!) really bad grade in college.<br />
Job.<br />
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Last....<br />
Time I saw my Great-Grandmother.<br />
Summer with Student Life (there were only two but both incomparable with any other).<br />
High school event. (Graduation... all the people I'd grown up with, away from, close to).<br />
Fight before ending an engagement.<br />
Scary movie I watched (still leaving the lamp on!).<br />
Time I rode my mountain bike (or even worse, my road bike. ah!).<br />
Concert I went to.<br />
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There's so many more. My life has been defined by firsts and lasts. Some funny, some serious or sad, but all are so important to who I am today. As I made this list, I thought about all the things I went through to experience these firsts and lasts, and what I've taken from each one... There is a story for every thing, and a season for each.. Do not be defined by your first and lasts, but be wiser from experiencing them. All things begin and end. Embrace that.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-72568565211813290292012-01-03T00:45:00.001-06:002012-01-03T00:45:49.358-06:00Here's to 2012...A chance to forgive, to do better, to do more, to give more, to love more...and to stop worrying about "what if" and embrace what would be. -New Year's Eve.<br />
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Just yesterday I was sitting in class counting the weeks to fall break; then the classes left until Thanksgiving. I bought a great sweater on sale on Black Friday and woke up again on Christmas morning- or at least that's how it feels.<br />
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The sad part, or maybe just the true part, is that I don't even remember fall break. I remember thanksgiving day, but not much more of that week either. Christmas is still fresh on my<br />
mind because I have not yet accepted the reality that it is over already. <br />
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I didn't even have time to make a New Year's resolution, not that I would actually have kept it. I have seriously considered joining the gym and dreamt... Again... About running that marathon. Of course, I'm an excuse maker, so there's that. <br />
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But here's to another year. No resolutions this year, but here's to the possibility. Here's to the Hillary Swank- smile-into- the- air of hope, new beginnings, and remembering the weeks that go by. Here's to walking slower, listening more, and taking in the days that whiz past. I don't think the world will be ending this year, but here's to living 2012 like the Mayans were right. jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-332118083973577662011-12-29T12:48:00.000-06:002011-12-29T12:48:20.920-06:00SeasonsFor every thing there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1<br />
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Seasons are inevitable. I'm not talking about summer and winter (though those are inevitable too). I'm talking about the good and sometimes bad times in our life that come, quietly and without notice, and become a way of living. Then we wake up a few months down the road and realize all we have of that time is just the memory, and just like that, those times, those seasons are gone, quietly and without notice- just like they came.<br />
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Like a Memphis spring, some seasons of life aren't too noticeable. But, like a Memphis summer, some seasons are full of memorable events, good and bad, and seem to last forever. Then, just when we get used to them or adjust to their pace, they are gone and we aren't sure how, or what to do in their wake.<br />
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Though my life has been full of these seasons, and I've taken something away from each one that I am thankful to have learned, there are three particular seasons that stick out to me.<br />
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The first one is summer of 2008. I had just gotten my mountain bike as a graduation present, and it was the best gift ever. My dad, brother, sister-in-law, and I would go and ride all the time. Maybe that's why I love MTB so much. That summer was hot, but we spent what seems like every weekend on our bikes. After that summer, I started working for Student Life so that was my only summer on the trails, but I still think about those days all the time, and I am thankful.<br />
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Even though those summer days faded, a new season came. It was the season of Starbucks. Every Tuesday afternoon, my mom and sister and I would meet at Starbucks. We would laugh and gossip and discuss things of importance, like Thanksgiving meals and sales at Target. This season lasted for a long time, but eventually school schedules and jobs got in the way. One day, I might live too far away to meet my sister and mom at the coffee shop, but I am so grateful for those Tuesday afternoons!<br />
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The season that has lasted longer than any other is the lunch club. When I was a freshman in college, my dad would eat lunch at the Subway across the street from school every Friday. So, for a free meal, I started joining him. Little did I know, 4 years later I would cherish those lunch dates. Sort of like religion, we follow the guidelines and meet every week; usually Subway, sometimes mexican, and lately, on Thursdays. The lunch club has gone through the days of the week, and occasionally we'll have honorary guests, but my Dad and I are the only true members. My sister tries but just can't stay faithful (which is understandable with a 4 year old at home), and Mom has a hard time sitting at lunch for an hour (because teachers only get 25 minutes for lunch), but is normally at work anyway. So, just me and Dad. It's my favorite and longest running season. When school starts back, we'll have to move Lunch club to Fridays, and then, in the summer, it might change again. I know one day I probably won't make it to lunch every week, but I sure have learned a lot during these meetings over the past four years, and I am so blessed to have that time with my Dad.<br />
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These seasons are the moments we'll cherish. These are the moments we'll remember, the conversations we learn from, the moments that define our relationships and our lives. These seasons are the ones that get us through each day and make the weeks go by. Be grateful, whatever season you're in, and take something away from each one.<br />
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Whatever the season, however long, be thankful.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-4526836442416243122011-12-23T10:03:00.000-06:002012-11-16T16:57:57.642-06:002011 by monthMy plans for myself have never worked out, thankfully. God cares too much for me to let my plans work out. 2010 was a big, hard year in my life, and 2011 was the aftermath. I have been thinking about it, how this year has changed me, or rather, how God has changed me throughout this year. Here are some of the highlights:<br />
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In January I started a new relationship for the first time since I ended my engagement.<br />
In February I really, finally let go of an old relationship and let myself heal.<br />
(In March, nothing memorable happened, but I'm sure God did something during this month, too.)<br />
In April, I quit the job I'd had for 5 years and started a job that would lead me to one of the best friends I've had.<br />
In May, I experienced Cinco De Mayo working in a Mexican Restaurant... no description necessary.<br />
In June, I took my first family vacation since 6th grade. I realized that I was alone for the first time since I could remember- alone, just me and God. I also realized that I've never been more care and worry free than I was in that moment... and every moment since. God opened my eyes that week to his love in a way that I'd never seen before.<br />
Then, in July, God brought me to a new place with my faith. For the first time, I've taken it and made it authentic. I am living MY faith, not my mothers. I don't know how He does it, but if you let Him, God will change your heart and mind in a way that makes you realize who you really are.<br />
In August, I went to a wedding and saw, for the first time since our breakup, the boy I almost started a life with. God is so good- the way he opens our eyes and heals our hearts.<br />
In September, I started a "real" job and the major that would rekindle my love for school. I also bought myself a car- a really nice car that doesn't break down and has a working cd player. I met my new niece and God showed me, again, the blessing of family.<br />
In October, I realized why my dad told me never to have a car note, and what being an adult feels like. In November, I filed my intent to graduate and realized how far I've come over the course of three different majors and two different schools.<br />
In December, my hard work at school paid off- I got my scholarship back. God used this to show me, yet again, His faithfulness and how he will always provide.<br />
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Maybe the details that shaped my year aren't really important. Maybe what's really important is that, some days throughout this year, I cried. I was heartbroken. I was lonely. I was mad. Some days throughout this year I was happy. I was excited. I was indestructible. But every day throughout this year, God was faithful. His love overwhelms the happiest memories of this year and the most painful. I have no idea what God has in store for 2012, but I will go confidently into the new year- no worries or cares- because I know whatever God has in mind, it's going to be greater than any plan I could have for myself.<br />
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Merry Christmas. Happy New Year.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2399272224098250654.post-57498637784597679622011-10-17T17:07:00.000-05:002011-10-17T17:07:02.639-05:00Petition. For school.For those of you who have as much as issue with school as I do, here's my petition:<br />
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Papers should actually really begin to write themselves after a certain amount of time spent staring at the blank document upon which they shall be written.<br />
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A strict "No Dieting/ healthy eating" policy will be enforced at all hours during a paper writing/ mid-term studying session. Cokes and chips are necessary for clear thinking.<br />
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Creative writing majors should not be forced to write research papers. It hinders our creativity, which is a problem, hence the name of our major. Nor should any other major be forced to write research papers, seeing as they are useless.<br />
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As long as a paper is for the grade and neither for sale nor public credit, no proof of originality shall be required.<br />
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Attendance should, in no circumstances, be mandatory, as long as the student maintains a grade that meets his or her personal criteria.<br />
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Group projects, to be done in class and not outside, should make up the majority of the weight of the grading scale.<br />
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No class should exceed the time limit of one hour. Limits above one hour force a student to choose between paying attention to the professor or wishing they were elsewhere, in which case, wishing they were elsewhere always prevails.<br />
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No professor shall assign reading over the length of 10 pages per class period, in order to prevent students' eyes from crossing, or closing, while trying to complete the reading assignment.<br />
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Textbooks shall never be paid for, only checked out when needed, especially at institutions in which tuition rises every semester.<br />
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Attendance to school sporting events, wearing school-spirited apparel, and participating in school events should count largely toward a student's gpa.<br />
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The amount of time between scheduled classes should allow for food breaks, printing breaks, nap breaks, and any other type of breaks that might enhance a student's learning abilities.<br />
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Classes that encourage physical activity and those most pertinent to one's major should be much more weighted than general education courses required by the university, as they will be much more pertinent to the student's future than those general education classes.jEssicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709270699377771511noreply@blogger.com1